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If you and your clandestine louw partner are the twin towers of romance, The city of Chennai is the metaphorical plane or plain that is likely to crash into the both of you. In Chennai, the presence of unmarried girl and unmarried boy within a distance of 10 metres from each other is considered to be a public display of affection. Of course I am exaggerating a bit. Quite a bit actually. In reality, the place has changed quite a lot over the years. Today, you probably will be, but the policeman patrolling Marina beach is likely to make polite enquiries about your Big4 status Vekkam, Maanam, Soodu, Soranai and generally haul you back home. The real irony is that the puritanical maamas and maamis of yore are slowly getting used to the fact that there exists this sane middle ground between the extremes of on the one hand and teenage pregnancies on the other. But with almost every engineering college doing practically everything short of neutering male students before admission, Chennai is entering this new weird era where young boys have no clue how to talk to a girl, let alone ask her out. Update: After several comments on this post, I realized that there are broadly 3 levels of clandestinity cough cough that people look for. Level 1 — where boy and girl only indulge in conversation and require a small degree of privacy. Level 2 — where a small amount of safe physical intimacy is desired and Level 3 — where, um, hotel rooms are required. This post mostly deals with Level 2 requirements. Chenthil has a nice post on Level 1. The Beaches Where to go: Central section of Marina Beach, opposite the Ice House. For some reason, this is the de-facto lovers zone, and you will find couples seated at strategically discreet distances from each other. The presence of several pairs generally discourages roving bands of shady guys who tend to consider the passing of lewd comments to be on par with. The only invasion of privacy one has to deal with is the Sundal-boy, who operates on the logic that if you want to put kadalai, you might as well buy some ammunition from him. Where not to go: Any other part of Marina Beach. Not a good idea. The Southern side of Elliots beach — There is a police checkpost and the cops play mangaatha and lay bets based on the number of couples they break up on a daily basis. I am serious, but kidding. Any other beach, especially on East Coast Road — Very dangerous. See Chennai map What to do if caught by a cop: 1. Wear rings on the ring finger of the left hand before going to the beach. Sometimes, just acting as if one is dialing that number and handing the phone to the cop is enough to convince him that you are not the typical thiruttu lover case. Ever since Chennai maamas and maamis have started wearing NRI-children-gifted New Balance sneakers and become health freaks, most parks have become way too crowded for couples. But one safe haven remains — the Adyar Banyan Tree, in the Theosophical Society. That place has ridiculous timings — open only for about 2-3 hours a day, only in the afternoons, and is closed on Sunday. But the place is quiet, uncrowded, filled with tall, beautiful trees and offers any sensible couple an hour at most of solitude and togetherness. Advice to guys — go easy on the PDAs. The Discs Chennai discs are usually filled with large groups of single men who come to get drunk and look out for the occasional, rare and bold couple who happen to visit. As a guy, you might not notice anything, but your girl will feel extremely uncomfortable at all that open-mouthed attention. And one other thing — Chennai discs play only English dubchick and Hindi dance music. No cure has been found yet. The Restaurants , in Nungambakkam is one of the few coffee shops with reasonably dim lighting and secluded alcoves. I am not aware of any other non-5-star place with a similar ambience. But as rightly points out, The Efficient Jalsa Hypothesis states that: No place is sustainably peaceful for thiruttu-kaadhal. So my recommendation to pairs — get together, start a chennailouwerswiki. Overall, Chennai is not an unmarried-couple-friendly place. But unlike some other cities in India, you are not likely to get killed. So be smart, and have fun. Damn I almost got first comment. I stay up late just for this. Nice dig at the tone deaf people. Sad that dating in Chennai has become hide and seek with the cops instead. First go to North and den speak. I have been in Chennai for 2 years now and I know exactly what this place is upto. Here nobody can destroy shops on valentine. Either grow up completely and progress wid time or just stick to that shit mentality. There is no middle way…. Ill add a few more places to u…. If you are not familiar, this is a chat restaurant in the basement, but the entire complex can be used as hideouts…. The Chats, Icecreams are also good. Just watchout when you are coming out…maybe ur parents or aunties are shopping next door… How I know…mmhm…. This is a good parking spot for bikes.. Besides, they might play Himes-bhai… Some years ago, I remember seeing a whole bunch of cars parked on the way to Beasant Nagar. Less open air, more privacy. We had to scale the walls of our college to slip out. Our only getaway was the tiruvanmiyur beach that amma warned about heavily and when we dated boyz with mo bikes it was horrible mahabs. Chennai is indeed the worst town city? My husband and I couldnt book a double room in a hotel even after we were married let alone as lovers. Finally, I was forced to phone a distant cousin who lived nearby to rescue me from this embarassment. Bangalore, despite all the North Indian dumbass infiltration, continues to be one tightly knit family. We need a KrishAshok counterpart in Bangalore now. All you guys have missed the big one. You park your car under the trees, honk the car for the waiter to pick up the order and wait for the waiter to serve the ice cream as you are seated inside the car. I chanced upon your post in DesiPundit, and am bloody glad! I live in Kolkata, where the availabilty of places slightly better. As in, there are specific places, like the Dhakuria Lakes and Victoria Memorial or any of the parks nearby the Maidan, certain restaurants and several shabby standalone cinema halls, etc. And of course, campuses like Jadavpur University are a godsend to lovers and smokers-up — pretty much everything goes! And the new Princeton club is brilliant as well. Within bounds, of course, and common-sense. But still, it seems better than the situation in Chennai. Tantra and the Park, for dates with good music and drinks and PYTs, Flurrys for lovers of the past era-the people set the place for liberal romance. A favorite haunt back then obviously for more than quiet conversation was the continuous shows at Blue Diamond theater at Gemini. Hangy-pangy and gobi menjoorian were great ones — will keep me smiling through the week. I agree Krish Ashok is a genius. But the Only Missing Out point in this blog is the Consolidated list of Level2 and Level 3 suitable Open air locations,cud be dark too spots. Precisely there r mostly level 1 spots listed. Thanx for the lovely blog. More than the info it provided, it was such a pleasure to read it, very well penned, I like your style of writing! Just clean friendly dating kinda thingy. Used to be a frequent visitor to the Guindy Park myself. Yeppo irindu ippadi namma Madras Chennai! Well Options are so many its easy to strike one to suit your imagination and requirement!. Mail me on this topic — -kamapro- Read this a few months after it was posted, obviously, but still want to comment. I have noticed that about Madras and heard a lot too , not a place for unmarried couples. People should open up a little, or more like, mind their own business. Maybe if you had your own apartment it would be waaay easier? A friend tried to go and were forbidden can you imagine?? Naan Anna Univ la than Padikkaren. Evlo marathadi , evlo odanja motor-shed, Paazhadanja pazhaya office roomunga. Ezhavu ellaa Category velaigalum inga nadakkuthu. College ulla varrathukku ID carde thevai illa. Illatha polatha koothellam enga college la nadakkudhu ba.. Can you please give people ideas on what the phoonk do single women in chennai do? Everyone is too smoked out to care. In Mylapore, a sidey dark lane off Palace road. And if replaced, broken again promptly by the regulars 3. Lvl 4 at citi center, which is quite romantic, but deserted. Order pizza 60 bucks. Later, you can wander onto the deserted side terrace for some gilma. Tell the guard you want to take photos or some such nonsense. Tip him when you leave. Near the Music Academy, a restaurant called Palki which has high partings and unobtrusive waiters. Pick the table right at the back. Oldies, stop being nostalgic! You can be out in the open and disapprove of us youngsters. We may, however, pelt you with empty bottles of coke and run away laughing. I never prefer any hotels to stay with girl friend. Came here via the most roundest about way, but at least I have finally come. Not adding to this list, because if secret places get populated, then where will all the peoples go?! Okay okay fine, one I will give: Brio, above the most unassuming mothercare outlet in the world. Can sit there for hours, and further meander.. Very impressed I am. Koil ullaara Yes, you seem not to have listed for level 1 the inside of various of our temples. Of course the danger of visiting aunts and parents is there…but they can be easily avoided methinks. I am listing spots used by couples 30-odd very odd years ago… Boat Club Road IIT campus OAT, on non-movie AND movie nights…are there any movies any more, though? I have some of the places mentioned above. A few of those mentioned above are fine apart from ECR. Refer The great cover up : Goergo May be U guys can try out Vandaloor Zoo if you have a day to spend and Car to Take you there. One more thing we used to do is to go in groups rather than a single couple. There is strength in numbers. Find some like minded couples, rent a car and set out. A single couple alone in a secluded place is always a tempting target. Beware and Be Aware. U also should know that CHENNAI is the safest location in INDIA…. PEaZZzzzzzz hi all first of all superb blog. Oooooo…I really appreciate the way you have narrated. You have really relished what you have narrated, But I don agree to all your points. There are a lot of Lovely joints where you could go to. Defenitely Chennai is not a very Couple friendly city like Bangalore — Where Privacy is available in Plenty. I went up again to check if it was a very old post. But 2007 Is reasonably ok a Time. Keep exploring — GL My parents have a house near St. Johns schools in Besant Nagar we have about 2 acres of empty land and empty guest houses within the land. I am currently staying there for a three month vacation in Chennai. Email me if interested We also have few other places in various parts of Chennai. Email me for details. In resorts and hotels there is a Hidden cam somewhere, u cannot go with a date and keep searching for cams boss. Yes there is a safe place in Chennai for lovers to spend some romantic time in Chennai,…. Now ur plan for the romantic day —— choose a nice fine working day prefer monday peak ur lover at morning and try to reach VGP by 9 am, VGP tickets is under budget- just Rs. On Sept 13, I went to the Roja Muthaiah Research Library, off Rajiv Gandhi Salai and opposite the Indira Nagar railway station around 1. We walked towards the station, discussing as we often do the contents of my research. We sat for a while on the raised platform connected to the pillar just beneath the iron staircase opposite to Indira Nagar Railway station. We must have been talking for around 25-30mins when a police officer called us from a distance. Later on I found out that he was the sub-inspector of Kotturpuram Police Station, Mr. He asked us all our personal details. I was taken aback but gave him my name and told him I was working on my Ph. D from the University of Madras. I also said that I used to regularly come to the library for my research work. I also mentioned that I was married and resided at Fore Shore Estate with my husband. I said too that the gentleman with me was my friend with whom I was discussing my research. What do you do? My friend politely told him that he would be obliged if the officer spoke to him respectfully. But before he could finish saying this, Mr N. I was taken aback and also felt quite scared and threatened to see a police officer behave so violently for no reason. I also told him so. How can you sit with another man? I know how many divorces are taking place because of these things. Your husband will believe only me, not you. I felt very scared and quite threatened when he asked me to get inside the jeep and come to the police station. It was around 5. So I hesitated to get into the jeep. Meanwhile, a small group of 6 to 7 people gathered there. Seeing the crowd gathering Mr N. You will sit here and talk. And if somebody threatens you with a knife, you will give him all your jewels and then will come with a complaint to me. You have even police protection there. My friend by this time called one of his lawyer friends and asked Mr N. He spoke to the lawyer but in the same abusive ferocious tone of voice. What this guy is doing is wrong. Should I talk to him with a Thambulam? He added that he could have left us alone, after taking five or ten thousand rupees from us but he wanted to teach me a lesson so that I would realize that I had done wrong. This entire incident lasted for more that 45mins and left me feeling shaken and upset. As you all know this is not an isolated incident. Everyday somebody or the other faces it in this area. Actually my discussion with some of friends, women writers and activists reveals that this area has a long history of these kinds of moral policing happening. Should I get down from my jeep, bend before you and ask? Firstly, to take action against the concerned officer and vindicate the faith of ordinary women in the law and in good policing. Secondly, what we need in place of moral policing are systems that create a safe atmosphere for women to work and study. The Taramani area, starting from the Voluntary Health Services campus to TIDEL Park is a vast institutional area, catering to educational and professional needs of thousands of young women and men. The place is badly lit, there is not enough security by way of a police assistance booth, not even a Friends of the Police Booth as you have in Besant Nagar. We would really appreciate it if the police take to productive action and urge Chennai Corporation to cooperate with them in creating safety zones in such institutional areas, rather than take to ill-directed and vicious moral policing. I seek your constant support in taking this issue forward both with your signatures and participation. SUJATHA Very sad incident, mostly what happens is that people get afraid of Police, mostly when a policeman tries to do this, just give him one final warning that you did not do anything wrong and he ought to respect the Public. Such Policemen need to be dealt strictly. My mood totally off on reading this, but lets keep our spirits ready. Me and my GF both work in same office so we can talk whenever we want, and play little, and most of times I try to close the Office late in evening. And for L3 you really need a secured place and lots of time, because it is L3. I hate this city cuz there isnt one place we can get intimate without loosing our 4 BIGS. My only advice is take your chances when your parents isnt at home. That is the most safest and secured environment to get intimate with your loved one before marriage. God i hate this world. I have never met anyone this funny and creative to put Chennai under the spot in a positive manner. It is refreshing to see a person sharing similar views. So glad I bumped into your blog. Drive in a car or take an auto until SIET college, then switch over to a bike and head to Mayaajal. Pick a helluva expensive hotel and let the guy check in alone. Get him to call you with the room number and you can head there. Nobody notices, cause you could be a legit guest at the hotel. Terraces and rooftops of friends apartments, not your own. Broken bridge but I wouldnt recommend it anymore 6. Rendezvous in a different city not always viable but makes for a less panicky experience. I can tell you for a fact we paid a shit load of money to stay under the radar. It was worth it! And dont ever tell your parents even if you end up marrying the boy! I recently found your blog while searching for some random stuff. And I must tell you that all your posts are really fun to read. And what makes them funny is that they are so true and one can relate to them. I have read only 3 of your posts so far, the Priestly Matters, Tale of Gregory 1 and then this one. I was just searching for this info for a while. After ten hours of continuous Googleing, finally I got it in your web site. I wonder what is the lack of Google strategy that do not rank this type of informative websites in top of the list. Normally the top web sites are full of garbage. All the best Corrine Gambardella. Just saw ur post.. But i dont know howcome i missed this post and after many years i found it alast. For Level 3, make use of your or your partners house when the parents are away the safest place. Still if you do not get a chance and you want to book a resort or a room and if you feel uncomfortable going and asking to the reception desk, better book the accommodation via online a week before. Since i am working in a hotel industry, hotel nowadays never care for the reputation but rather worried about the occupancy and income they get. So it is no big deal. If you are smart enough, you can directly even approach. Hotels in ECR roads are little dangerous because of local gangs. So if you still want, you can try in Mahabs but dont go interior and stay in main place. Always remember, you should protect the girl from any risks so make wise choice.. Other than this, you can try theatres, beach after sunset, planetorium, restaurants etc. Make use of the opportunity. I did however expertise several technical issues using this site, since I experienced to reload the website many times previous to I could get it to load correctly. I had been wondering if your web host is OK? Make sure you update this again soon. In ECR, there is Golden Sun Beach Resort for L1 and L2 its the good place and completely safe. You can get entry ticket to enter. There is a cloth changing room, where you can get yourself dressed in beach costume like shorts and Tees which ever is comfortable for you. You can spend some time in the beach and in the hut like shade with your partner. Also there are some wooden benches near the beach in shade, where you can lie down in open air and relax in the breeze. You can play in the beach water, take a bath in the shower near swimming pool open area and get dressed up while leaving home. My developer is trying to convince me to move to. I have always disliked the idea because of the expenses. I have heard very good things about blogengine. Is there a way I can import all my wordpress posts into it? Any help would be really appreciated! Howdy just wanted to give you a quick heads up. The text in your post seem to be running off the screen in Opera. The design and style look great though! Hope you get the issue solved soon. Many thanks WOW wat a man you are Mr. Great work mann… Awesome..!!!! Any one with any ideas … common share it… Wow!! This post is from 2007 and even in 2016 people are searching for it, reading it and commenting. I used to live in Chennai, but now moved to Bangalore, but its in Chennai where my heart belongs not my roots though. Too many romantic memories and escapades to throw away. I used to head over to St. Thomas Mount for some alone time with my girl after work in the evenings. Not all the way up to the mount, but there was a very special place near the military area where I would stop the car and get jiggy with my girl. We visited the same spot over 10 times in the course of several months. The funny thing is that its actually an open area and we parked in the open by the road side right under a lamp post actually and the bright lights directly on top of the car made the shadows darker inside and more difficult to see through the tinted glasses to a casual observer. The trick is not to look suspicious when out in the open and not rocking the car too much ;-. He knocked on the side window with his laathi and peered inside. Our hearts were in our mouths that time, but I quickly started the car and got the hell out of there. She was quite frightened by it and with that we stopped going there altogether, except to just pass through from time to time and relive old memories. Having my own car helped a lot, of course, but I guess the moral of the story is that its usually the things that happen right under our noses that we tend to overlook. Acting suspicious and hiding in dark shadows tends to catch peoples attention more often than not. I used to also park near other parked cars on side roads and engage in some L1 and L2 with the engine still running for the air conditioning. You need to be aware of your surroundings and always be ready with an excuse or story about why you are there. Most of the time if someone approached, I would pretend to be talking on the cellphone. Other times, we would say we are just waiting for a friend. People tend to leave you alone if you seem confident and have a strong story. Humility is a virtue. The car was eventually sold, if you must know. Sorry for hijacking your blog post. I really enjoyed reading it. It was the No. I enjoyed all the comments and felt good to know that we are all humans after all with the same feelings and needs. Really a great blog whoever created it.. Without wasting much time I will come to the topic. A 3 star hotel best place for real lovers and who want to express their desires in a room. Honestly speaking star hotels are always best for spending 1 or 2 days in complete privacy. I highly recommend Hotel anushka Just google it you can find its website with room photoes also since me and my girlfriend for past 4. Hav fun in a safe place. In those days, kadhalium naanum…we walked from T. Keep up the blog.
Top 10 Places to Visit in Chennai
Lvl 4 at citi center, which is quite romantic, but deserted. Part of the jesus go towards funding social projects in the village. Distance: 71 km from Chennai Location:Eastern coast, South of Mahabalipuram Best time to visit: October to March. The presence of several pairs generally discourages roving bands of shady guys who tend to consider the passing of lewd comments to be on par with. He met on the side window with his laathi and peered inside. He spoke to the lawyer but in the same abusive ferocious tone of voice.
